When is the time to let go of a friend? One close friend told me I made things complicated. But I've experienced a lot and in my heart, in my mind they were maybe petty on some but these were big deal to me. I learned to accept that there were things beyond my control. I have lost several friends due to differences. So in my mind I have quite fair right to decide who to keep in my circle and who should not. I'd learned that forgiving is not really getting things back as they used to be. I have to learned something. Need to be wise. There maybe grudges along the way but I know myself too that these too will pass and I can work and be civil with anyone. In fact there were those who cannot stand my kindness after a mishap. Respect and a view of any person to one's character is in the eye of the beholder. We cannot dictate him/her. So please just give me some space right now and let time heals all wounds. Perhaps in time the friendship that was lost will be found again. or maybe we can just be civil forever and be mere acquaintances. Though as saying goes there is always a reason why we meet certain people in our life.. A special season to learn new things and to mold us as a better person for a world to see.
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