Today marks the end of another friendship. I may be at fault but I search in my heart too and find that I just stand on what I think is right. It's difficult whenever you're only seeking for understanding and listening ear and what you get is criticism. I admit that there are times I am careless too with my views that I promised that day when a friend told me to just listen that is, to listen more. I learned the hard way that there are times friends only need my presence. I only speak up when they are willing to hear it. Otherwise life is unfair and I don't get it in return. I really don't know if this is a time for celebration for I'm really exerting time and effort to make our relationship work. I mean she isolate herself and I felt I'm the only friend she left. But realizing we have our first argument has left her to do what I knew she always does. To run away. She even threw hurtful words like she doesn't need me. I moved on pity for a person to just say that. It only means she is hurting a lot and she has nothing right now but herself. I let her know it is just a small misunderstanding and just explain my side why I went beserk. I'm also human and have feelings too. She needs to learn to understand that people around her have feelings and just respond to her actions. What she fail to see is my openness in spite of all that happened.. that its nothing. I have so many friends and we also argue a lot from time to time. Conflict is healthy for me since it only strengthen the friendship. You will better knew and understand your friend and be able to express yourself too by knowing where you stand. Isn't it we are all different?
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